My next DatingAdvice post is live today: What If You Can’t Perform During Group Sex?
I think this is a common thing for people (not just men) to be concerned about. Female bodies just have the luxury of hiding their physical arousal or non-arousal more easily.
What have you done during a group sex encounter when you experienced performance anxiety? What helped you?
Here’s the conclusion of the article; go read the rest if you’re so inclined! 🙂
“If your cock isn’t hard, there could be a number of reasons.
In a group sex situation, often a non-erect cock has more to do with self-pressure to perform, nervousness or unfamiliarity with the situation or partner(s) than it does with attraction or interest in the situation or people involved.
Simply talking about it with your partners can help redirect your attention and energy away from one of your body parts to engaging with the people in the room. Offer to go down on someone or make out with someone.
Do your best to be present and if you become physically aroused, awesome. If you don’t, awesome.
If you are in the presence of other sexually intelligent people, then they will respect your body and communication and go with the flow, too.
Just have fun, relax and enjoy yourself. How many people get to experience group sex, anyway?”
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